but then you disagree with Lilenth and agree with me, because I'm the one who believes that the amount of harm should be equal to the amount of upset, and that if there is no harm, maybe we shouldn't treat it as a big deal. Lilenth (despite her still holding onto the icon she isn't sure she has permission to use), is saying that it doesn't matter if profit is being made or not, it's still wrong to use another's IP, even as a LJ icon.