but i kept asking myself what's more important '' finishing the stuff i owe my commissioners '' or '' my father's life ''..

Pack your bags kids, we're goin' on a guilt trip! :D

This kind of thing is sickening. Yes, unforeseen circumstances come into play. Shit happens, shit gets side-tracked. HOWEVER, if she were so swamped with taking care of her father then she should be spending less time whining at her customers and more time apologizing and refunding them. End of story.

Also, refunding you in CAD is kind of a crap move. PayPal lets you pick which currency to use and converts it automatically. The least she could have done is checked what country you live in instead of short-changing you after the exchange. Lame!

Edit: Grammar and added stuff.