You probably have the best response to this. I'm sorry you went through such a hard time with your dad and sister. *hug* I sympathize completely.
It seems like a time management thing, to me. My mom is very sick right now and my dad helps her around, but he also works from home as a project manager, so he's in the basement a lot. If he's got time to work, take meetings, do some errands, some other chores around the house (fixing things, mowing the lawn, etc.) and STILL help my mom when she needs it, he's managing his time really well.
If Mewsagi can't rearrange her schedule to care for her dad as well as take on commission work and doing whatever else she needs to do AND her personal art...? She's doing it wrong.
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It seems like a time management thing, to me. My mom is very sick right now and my dad helps her around, but he also works from home as a project manager, so he's in the basement a lot. If he's got time to work, take meetings, do some errands, some other chores around the house (fixing things, mowing the lawn, etc.) and STILL help my mom when she needs it, he's managing his time really well.
If Mewsagi can't rearrange her schedule to care for her dad as well as take on commission work and doing whatever else she needs to do AND her personal art...? She's doing it wrong.