Sorry you had to put up with this. I hate how she's obviously using her father's illness to try and guilt-trip you when you've obviously been very understanding and polite. That is ridiculous, and you should not feel guilty at all about asking her about the progress of your commission. She probably does need some sympathy but she needs to realize that it's incredibly immature of her to be going "why can't you understand what I'm going through none of you care about me bawwww" when you yourself were being completely polite and reasonable. :l