>The newest stuff that i have been posting was mean't to be posted before i left two month's ago, since they were sitting aside for week's, i tried to finish a few commissions, but the way my mind and body is right now, i just can't seem to think, i just keep thinking about my dad, i'm worried what's going to happen.<

All I see here is someone looking for ass-pats from the internet while shirking their commissions and potentially lying about or playing up their sick father. Again, even when I was taking care of my ill father (who got better thankfully) I still went to work, showed up on time and did what was expected of me.
Tell me why an artist should get special leeway when everyone else is expected to work (or take leave either on sick days or without pay and still faces the possibility of being fired). Regardless of when her new posts were made, a product is still not in the OP's hands though payment has been taken. In an other part of life we would call that stealing.