Thank you for your input however there is information that was asked to be removed as it did not fit within the rules of posting this Beware (as it was not relevant and too personal). Those parts explain the “hon” situation as it was meant to be friendly due to the relationship that we had and gives a bigger picture. They, at first, were business and then it developed into a friendship as time went by. Yes I do know mixing business with friendship is a no-go however it was developed during the process and not beforehand.
With anyone I have commissioned, I stick by the 24-72 hour rule, but I did become aggressive and with good reason towards the end. Their availability was only M-W so I was only given a short window to talk business; on top of this there was that shady feeling that left me uneasy with not much reassurances so it sent me into panic mode (as shown and admitted to in a few posts)
I can go on and on of how things were handled to explain my side, but I do agree there were problems on my side as well and admit to them with learning from those mistakes to include zero friendship until the job is done even though I prefer to be friendly as they are humans too. Again the purpose of this was to warn others so I digress from my personal views and apologize for that.
![[community profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/community.png){kind=small}
![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
timeasmymeasure
no subject
Date: 2018-01-22 02:44 pm (UTC)With anyone I have commissioned, I stick by the 24-72 hour rule, but I did become aggressive and with good reason towards the end. Their availability was only M-W so I was only given a short window to talk business; on top of this there was that shady feeling that left me uneasy with not much reassurances so it sent me into panic mode (as shown and admitted to in a few posts)
I can go on and on of how things were handled to explain my side, but I do agree there were problems on my side as well and admit to them with learning from those mistakes to include zero friendship until the job is done even though I prefer to be friendly as they are humans too. Again the purpose of this was to warn others so I digress from my personal views and apologize for that.